Despite the sexual revolution and feminism, some women still find themselves being slut-shamed. They are branded this way for having premarital sex.
Other names used to shame women who sleep around are whore, tarty, strumpet, and trollop. Some of these words are being reclaimed by some women to counter this type of shaming.
1. Look her deep in the eyes
In the world of sexiness, there’s a fine line between being sexy and being slutty. Slutty women are often defined as those who flaunt their bodies and sexuality to get attention from men. Often, these women are very manipulative and use their sexuality as a weapon against men.
You can usually tell if a woman is a slut by looking at her eyes. Sluts tend to have deep set pupils that enlarge easily with emotion. They also tend to have a smouldering look that sends out a signal of desire.
Another sign of a slut is her collection of male friends. If she’s constantly surrounded by men, then it’s an indication that she’s addicted to attention and will cheat on you at the drop of a hat.
Other indicators of sluttiness include her body language and her social media profiles. If she’s always wearing low-cut clothes, posting pictures of herself in exotic locales, or partying in clubs and bars, then you should steer clear of her. It’s also a bad sign if she has a lot of tattoos and piercings.
2. Make her feel your masculine energy
Feminine energy is powerful because of what it is (being) whereas masculine energy is made powerful by what it does (doing). In order to make her feel your masculine energy, you need to show her that you are strong and in control. You can do this by being a provider to her, giving her your full attention and displaying your power with your body language.
It is also important to make her feel that you are in control of your emotions and not easily influenced by hers. This is why it is important not to agree with her all the time, because if you do this, she will think that you are weak.
Another way to make her feel your masculine energy is to sexualize your interaction with her. You can do this by asking her questions that make her think about sex, or by using a double entendre in your conversation. For example, you can ask her what clothes she feels most sexy in or ask her how she would feel during a cuddle. This will arouse her because it makes her imagine herself doing those things.
3. Don’t change who you are to please her
If you want to seduce a slut, it is important not to change who you are to please her. This will make her feel like you are not authentic and that you are trying to impress her. Instead, be yourself and let your natural energy turn her on.
Many men are afraid to show their sexual side to sluts because they don’t want to be seen as “whores” or sluts themselves. However, showing your sexual energy can be a very effective way to seduce a slut.
Whenever someone talks about having sex with multiple partners or being open about her sexual desires, there are people out there who cluck their tongues and say that women who do this are “sluts.” This kind of slut-shaming is harmful to girls and women because it tells them that they should be ashamed of their bodies. It also reinforces the idea that there is only one, boring, “normal” way to be sexual. This is not true. Sexualities are complex and people should be allowed to explore their own sexual preferences freely.
4. Make her feel rejected
One of the best ways to make her feel rejected is to subtly show that you’re not interested in her. This is especially effective when she’s in a public space and can be done by simply letting her know you want to go somewhere else. This is a good way to create sexual tension and also shows her that you’re not afraid of her and can take control of the situation.
Another great way to make her feel rejected is to tease her. This can be done by asking her questions that are meant to be erotically provocative. This can be done over text or in person. For example, you can ask her how she feels about someone groping her or how she fantasizes about porn. This will get her horny because it’s not something that most men are willing to do.
You can also make her feel rejected by blaming her for your escalation. This is a great way to create a sense of guilt in her and can be done by using ambiguous language or making comments that can be interpreted as sexually suggestive. This will make her feel guilty and will be more likely to try and seduce you again.
5. Make her feel guilty
In some cases, a girl will be reluctant to sleep with you. This can be because she wants to play hard to get, or she might want to protect her reputation in your eyes by playing the “whore” card. In this case, you can make her feel guilty about it by making her wait a little longer than usual. For example, you could play soft music and dim the lights. This creates an intimate atmosphere that can make her feel more comfortable getting undressed.
You can also play with her neck and ears, which are erogenous zones. These areas can be stimulated with kissing, licking, and gentle biting. You can also put lotion on her hands or feet, which will increase the sensitivity of her skin and make it more responsive to touch. This will help to build sexual tension. You can even blame escalation on her, by saying things like “I thought you were going to do something more.” This will make her feel guilty about objecting to your advances and will increase her desire for you.
